The Pickling Process
Let me
explain what has to be addressed after the addict stops using the drugs and has
gone through a 30-day detoxification process
I will use my story to illustrate the problem and
the solution:
My wife Jeanie and I have lived two drastically different
lives!
Figuratively speaking, I am a pickle and Jeanie
is a cucumber.
You saturate a cucumber long enough in vinegar, it will
become a pickle.
You can never turn that pickle back into a cucumber.
During those years of abusing drugs, I was pickled in a jar
(world) of vinegar (sin).
I had spent years being saturated with evil
thoughts, evil words, evil actions, and evil habits.
Those bad thoughts, words, actions, and habits
changed (pickled) me forever.
This is what I mean when I say, I am a pickle.
On the other hand, my wife Jeanie grew up on the mission
field of Africa, the daughter of a Gospel preacher.
She attended Christian schools and universities.
She did not experience the extent of sin which I
did.
She did not experience the evil pickling process which I
did.
Hence, Jeanie is a cucumber and I am a pickle.
Now, I stopped abusing drugs in 1984, when I was arrested
for the last time.
On June 1, 1986 my sins were washed away when I was
baptized into Christ.
I came up out of that watery grave of baptism to
walk in newness of life (Romans 6:1-4).
When I obeyed the Gospel, I became a new creation.
Old things were passed away, and all things became
new (2 Corinthians 5:17).
However, my
experience with the devil and sin, and my memories of those 15 years in the
pickle jar were not washed away. For the rest of my life, I have to be aware
of, live with and even fight against my past pickling process (Galatians 5:1;
Romans 6:17,18).
In this regard, my fight of faith is very different from
Jeanie’s fight of faith!
She is a cucumber, and I am a pickle.
When you are
ministering to a recovering addict, you must realize they have a past pickling
process to overcome (John 8:32, 2 Peter 2:20-22).
Some have been more pickled than others, and they
will need more attention.
The pickling process is what makes it so hard to win
them back to the Lord.
The devil has such a hard grip on them, it is almost
impossible to pry them out of his clutches (Colossians 1:13; John 8:32; 2 Peter
2:22).
Some
Scriptures can be applied to the pickling process:
Some of the members of the church in Corinth were pickles:
"9Do
you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be
deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor
£homosexuals, nor sodomites,
10nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor
extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God.
11And such were some of you. But you were
washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord
Jesus and by the Spirit of our God.”
1 Corinthians 6:9-11
The vinegar (sins)
they were pickled in were fornication, idolatry,
adultery, homosexuality, thievery, covetousness, drunkenness, and partying.
I believe this is why the church in Corinth was such a
mess.
Paul spent about a year and a half ministering to the
messes in Corinth.
Paul is the example I look to for help in ministering to
messes.
The hardest stage of ministering to a recovering addict is the beginning stage (first 3-months). The pickling process corrupts one’s character (1 Timothy 4:2; James 3:14,15). I once heard a preacher who ministers to addicts say, “An addict can talk a cat off the back of a fish truck!”
The Apostle Paul wrote about the corrupted conscience: "Now the Spirit expressly
says that in latter times some will depart from the faith, giving heed to
deceiving spirits and doctrines of demons, speaking lies in hypocrisy, having
their own conscience seared with a hot iron." (1
Timothy 4:1.2
The Gospel Advocate's
commentary on 1 Timothy 4:1,2 explains how living in sin corrupts the
conscience:
Galatians 6:1 speaks of the restoration process needed to
reverse the character damage caused by the pickling process of addiction:
“Brethren, if a man is overtaken in any trespass, you who
are spiritual restore
such a one in a spirit of gentleness…”
James 5:19.20 also speaks to the conversion (“turns him
back”) process needed to repair the character corruption created by the pickling
process of addiction:
"Brethren,
if anyone among you wanders from the truth, and someone turns him back,let
him know that he who turns a sinner from the error of his way will save a soul
from death and cover a multitude of sins.”
To restore one
from the damage of the pickling process, intense attention (teaching, reproof,
correction, instruction in righteousness, rebuke, and exhortation) is needed (2
Timothy 3:16,17; 2 Timothy 4:2).
Before
restoration can begin, the pickling process must be stopped.
Let me explain:
Quitting the drugs and alcohol is a beginning, but it does
not necessarily stop the pickling process.
Many come into our program and continue the evil
thoughts, words, actions, and habits.
They continue to resist God instead of the devil
(James 4:7).
Many of the souls in our care are like the prodigal son
(Luke 15) who went out to conquer the world and the world conquered him.
Most of them come to us after having destroyed
almost every good thing in their life.
Some have already surrendered (Romans 12:1,2), but
the typical program member has not.
The prodigal son surrendered (“came to himself”) only after
all the money was gone, a famine hit his life, he was living with the pigs and
considered eating the pigs’ food.
It was at this point he thought of returning to his
Father and then actually returned to the Father!
There are a few who come to the program already sick and
tired of being sick and tired and in total surrender to God.
These enjoy the program and prosper.